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Get to know how you can
establish a new relationship!!
Relationships make life
meaningful whether they are good or bad.
when Asked, what is
necessary for your happiness? Most people say, before anything else, satisfying
close relationships with friends, family and Romantic partners, before proceeding first
we have to know what is Interpersonal relationship??
Interpersonal
Relationship, this
refers to a strong association among individual with similar tastes,
aspirations and interests in life. A sense of trust, loyalty and commitment is
essential in a relationship. Individuals need to trust and respect their
partners to avoid misunderstanding and conflicts in relationship.
How relationships get started!?
The more rewards someone
provide for us the more we should be allocated to that individual. A number of
factors have been found to influences initial attraction trough their reward
values Including Proximity,
Exposure, Familiarity, Similarity and Physical attractiveness!!
Stages of relationship
According to famous
psychologist George Levinger, every relationship goes trough following five stage
First stage - Acquaintance; Relationship starts
with mutual attraction
Second stage - Build-up: Couples become increasingly
interdependent, in this stage is when the relationship actually grows
individuals are no longer strangers and start trusting each other. the stage
characterized with coming close, being passionate and feeling each other.
Third stage - Continuation: Couple’s lives becomes
intertwined. Here the relationships blossoms into lasting commitments. It is
when people after knowing each other well
Fourth stage - Deterioration: Bond breaks cost overshadows
rewards. Here also not all relationships pass through this stage, but lack
of compatibility, trust,
love and care often lead to misunderstandings and serious troubles in relation
Here the compromise is needed to solve the disputes
Fifth stage - Termination: The relationship ends due to
deterioration. the relationship can be terminated due to different
factors such as Death,
Divorce and separation
Factors affecting relationships
A lot of factors can
affect relationships, the followings down are some of them;
1. Compatibility
Two individuals in a relationship must be compatible with each other. There should be no scope of conflicts and misunderstandings in a relationship. Individuals from similar backgrounds and similar goals in life do extremely well in relationships. People with different aims, attitudes, thought processes find it difficult to adjust and hence fail to carry the relationship to the next level.
2. Communication
Communication plays a pivotal role in all types of relationships whether it is personal or professional. Feelings must be expressed and reciprocated in relationships. Individuals need to communicate with each other effectively for better understanding. Do not stay mum as it leads to problems and misunderstandings. Two people in love must interact with each other on a regular basis through various modes of communication such as telephone, emails, letters (though exchanging letter is now considered an outdated form of communication). Staying in touch is essential for the love to grow especially in long distance relationships where individuals can’t meet quite often.
In professional relationships as well, colleagues must communicate well for a better bonding. Sit with your co workers and discuss issues face to face to reach to a mutually acceptable solution.
The recipient must understand what the sender intends to communicate and vice a versa. Clarity of thoughts is essential in relationships.
3. Honesty
Be honest in relationships. Do not lie or hide things from your partner. Remember every problem has a solution. Think before you speak. Transparency is important in relationships.
4. Stay calm
Do not overreact on petty things in relationships. Stay calm. Be a little more adjusting. Be the first one to say “Sorry”. It will solve half of your problems.
5. Forgiving
An individual needs to be a little more forgiving in relationships. Do not drag issues unnecessarily. Fighting over small issues is foolish and makes the situation all the more worse.
6. Smile
As they say “Smile is a curve that makes everything staright.” Flash your smile more often. It works. Take care of your facial expressions while interacting with the other person.
7. Time
Time plays an important role in relationships. Individuals in love must spend adequate time to know each other better. Frustrations arise when people do not have time to meet or interact with each other. Even in organization, individuals must spend quality time with their co workers to strengthen the bond amongst themselves. Married couples must take time out for each other for the charm to stay in relationship forever.
Make the other person feel important. Appreciate your partner whenever he/she does something for you. Praise him/her in front of others.
Every relationship needs time and an individual’s effort to grow. Sit with your partner and try to sort out the differences amicably. Don’t be too rigid.
That is all about relationships once you want to establish please be Very Kin!!
Two individuals in a relationship must be compatible with each other. There should be no scope of conflicts and misunderstandings in a relationship. Individuals from similar backgrounds and similar goals in life do extremely well in relationships. People with different aims, attitudes, thought processes find it difficult to adjust and hence fail to carry the relationship to the next level.
2. Communication
Communication plays a pivotal role in all types of relationships whether it is personal or professional. Feelings must be expressed and reciprocated in relationships. Individuals need to communicate with each other effectively for better understanding. Do not stay mum as it leads to problems and misunderstandings. Two people in love must interact with each other on a regular basis through various modes of communication such as telephone, emails, letters (though exchanging letter is now considered an outdated form of communication). Staying in touch is essential for the love to grow especially in long distance relationships where individuals can’t meet quite often.
In professional relationships as well, colleagues must communicate well for a better bonding. Sit with your co workers and discuss issues face to face to reach to a mutually acceptable solution.
The recipient must understand what the sender intends to communicate and vice a versa. Clarity of thoughts is essential in relationships.
3. Honesty
Be honest in relationships. Do not lie or hide things from your partner. Remember every problem has a solution. Think before you speak. Transparency is important in relationships.
4. Stay calm
Do not overreact on petty things in relationships. Stay calm. Be a little more adjusting. Be the first one to say “Sorry”. It will solve half of your problems.
5. Forgiving
An individual needs to be a little more forgiving in relationships. Do not drag issues unnecessarily. Fighting over small issues is foolish and makes the situation all the more worse.
6. Smile
As they say “Smile is a curve that makes everything staright.” Flash your smile more often. It works. Take care of your facial expressions while interacting with the other person.
7. Time
Time plays an important role in relationships. Individuals in love must spend adequate time to know each other better. Frustrations arise when people do not have time to meet or interact with each other. Even in organization, individuals must spend quality time with their co workers to strengthen the bond amongst themselves. Married couples must take time out for each other for the charm to stay in relationship forever.
Make the other person feel important. Appreciate your partner whenever he/she does something for you. Praise him/her in front of others.
Every relationship needs time and an individual’s effort to grow. Sit with your partner and try to sort out the differences amicably. Don’t be too rigid.
That is all about relationships once you want to establish please be Very Kin!!
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